You know the saying, a friend of a friend of a friend… Or how about the adage that there is only six degrees of separation? If you really think about it, it just might be true. I’ve certainly had this phenomenon present itself before. Somehow it’s just a bit exciting to think you know someone, who knows someone, who knows someone famous.
This week I met the sister of a friend. (That would be only one degree of separation. Or would that be two?) My friend mentioned that her sister came from Maine, Stephen King land as she put it.
“Really?” I replied. “I’m a huge fan!” Nothing new or earth shattering in that exchange. I followed that up with “Actually he’s influenced my writing quite a bit.”
I’ve been reading Stephen King’s books since my teens. I love the way his stories keep me at the edge of my seat, not knowing what’s going to happen next. His descriptive style pulls me right into his stories.
In addition, although I’ve read several good books on the craft of writing, I count his book “On Writing” as the one that taught me the most. One of the greatest compliments I can get is when someone tells me one of my stories is Stephen Kingish.
So I really did mean it when I told this sister of a friend that Stephen King has influenced me.
Her response was not what I was expecting. She told me he was one of her neighbors and sometimes saw him out and about. My response? “Wow, cool.” For a writer, sometimes words can escape me. (By the way we would be up to TWO degrees of separation, or maybe that’s three, still respectable either way.)
My friend turned to her sister and said, “Dody here is an author also.”
Okay, so we were talking Stephen King. I don’t think I could ever comprehend the idea of mentioning my name as an author in conjunction with Stephen King. I laughed and pulled out a bookmark that has all the information for Finding Hope, my website and this blog.
My friend told her I was good. I blushed and told her she could check my book out if she wanted. Then, in what had to be a moment of incredible bravery, or insanity, I handed her a second bookmark and said, “Here, if you bump into your buddy Steve, you can tell him to check me out.”
I know, I can hear you laughing. Me too. But you never know. Just maybe this friend’s sister will actually take that bookmark back to Maine with her, and maybe instead of it getting lost in her suitcase or on her counter she’ll actually have it on her, and just maybe she’ll bump into Mr. King himself.
Maybe, just maybe, she’ll remember the bookmark and give it to him. And if all the stars align and the world stops rotating on it’s axis, he won’t toss it in the nearest trashcan, or crumple it up and stuff it in his pocket to get destroyed in his washing machine. And just maybe he’ll decide to check me out and not laugh his butt off at this little author actually doing something so bold as handing one of his neighbors my info.
IF, by chance he gets that far, and actually reads my story, and finds that I may have some future in writing, and takes the time to drop me a note and tell me so, It will all be for naught because I’d probably die on the spot!
But you just never know. Maybe that sister of a friend, who lives in the same neighborhood as Stephen King just might change my life. Or maybe I’ll win the lottery. I’m somehow thinking the lottery is more likely, but a girl can dream can’t she?
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Dody, my brother met Mr. King on several ocassions years past. A work project (not writing) but non the less exciting. Keith found him to be a great guy. So hold close the the old saying "Life is stranger than fiction…" and don't give up your dream.Nancy